When people especially ladies begin to clock age 27yrs-30yrs, they begin to get scared! And no they are not scared of Rapture, they are not scared of anything but the inability to find the right man to call a husband.
Our African mentality tells us that it is good to marry early so you can give birth early and also look young when your first child is 25 at least.
Our African mentality also tell us that when you clock 30, men may hardly notice you because they feel you are becoming old.
Most scholars/psychologists will tell you that menopause in women have dropped from 50 since 2010 to age 30 in 2015. Which means that a 30 year old lady may find it difficult to give birth; but the question is!
What are you scared of? What do you believe?
Do you always believe everything you see on television and read on the pages of most magazine?
It is good to settle down(marry) early no doubt, but don't make it a do or die affair.
The reason why most single sisters leave Church today is because the brothers bring their wife from outside. Because of that, you have visited almost every church in your neighborhood and not with the aim to serve or worship God, but to get noticed by one brother.
Going up and down churches just to find a husband might get you a husband but may get you the wrong husband because of your desperation to settle down.
As people walk up and down several markets and shopping mall, so do people visit churches each sundays .So don't always feel every handsome church brother is God sent.(the devil also goes to church)
Do not allow desperation show you the other side of life.
Who told you 30 means old? Who told you people don't give birth at 46+? Ask my friend Hannah or just ask my other friend sarah who was 90 and still went for antenatal.
Oh no wonder i love the Redeemed Christian Church of God. you are called an elder and attend elders meeting only when you get to 45years. Even at that, you still find a man or woman of 50 attending youth program. So lovely
I believe in the saying that age is just a number.
Most people are 30 but behave so old, why most people of 80 are young at heart, with the right mindset and attitude to life and with a purpose.
You are what you think you are.
So if you say you are old, then you are.
The reason why you have had much heartbreak and failed relationship is because you want to give everyone a chance in your life to see if they fit in. By doing that, you even miss the right person because you only see the now and not where you both are heading to(future)
People grow people, people grow relationship, they build it; so build yours.
Stop joking with your body just to experiment if you can fit in.
Most people are not married, yet they are scared if they can give birth or not.
Stop allowing your thoughts,your friends and the way you see life negatively become a part of you.
Say to yourself each morning " I am strong" I am young" I am the best" Any man that comes for me is lucky....
Speak gain, speak life, speak good health... You are a daughter of Zion with a purpose; for the brothers, you are a king, and anyone that identifies with you identifies with royalty.
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