Some might really be desperate, but many are not desperate; and even in the midst of desperation, if you portray a character a lady dislike, she might reject your diamond ring and give you a big NO!!!
Just like a man wants a good wife, a woman also wants a good husband. You might look good, wealthy and with latest cars, but if you portray a certain behaviour a lady dislike especially a lady that knows her worth and value, she won't accept your proposal; don't be surprise she might leave you for someone who is not even richer than you or own what you currently possess.
I know of a lady who rejected a man's proposal even in the midst of his massive wealth and riches. Two years down the line, she married someone else not richer than the formal. When I asked her what was her reason for making such decision, She said to me KOSI, marriage is a serious business. It is a life time commitment and going for just anybody is not my thing; I want to live happy all my life. she gave reasons why she rejected the formal rich guy which I'm going to list out now...
PRIDE: Wealth and riches is God's idea for us; God wants us to be rich and enjoy the good of the land, but wealth and pride can never work hand in hand. If you are a man with so much wealth and riches but you are too proud, not every lady will accept you for Love but for the money. Purposeful ladies who know what they want can never accept a proud guy no matter how much he owns or possess. Some might really accept you, but not all will accept you. If you are proud and want a good wife who loves you for you and not for your wealth, then you must kill pride. Pride is a killer of potentials and character, and the better you leave and reject it, the better for you.
LACK OF THE FEAR OF GOD: No matter how much you have in your bank account and how much you are worth, if you lack the fear of God, your money is worthless. A lady who is good, God-fearing and respectful will never marry a man who lacks the fear of God. A person who lacks the fear of God might be loving and caring to a woman, but that is not enough. If you hate God, you can never have enough to love a woman. Loving a woman flows perfectly when you first love God and obey His command.
SMOKING AND DRINKING: With the desire not to condemn those who smoke and drink, you should bear in mind that not every lady is cool with marrying a man who drinks and smokes. Though some ladies really do not mind, but majority of them will never marry a man who smokes and drinks. No matter how much you own, a lady will reject you if you do not change from such habit. Some ladies do smoke and they won't mind a guy who smokes and drinks, but be rest assured that majority of our sincere ladies will never marry or accept a man that smokes and drinks.
FLIRT: To my own definition of a flirt, a man who is not satisfied with one woman is a flirt. When you ask most men why they flirt, you hear them say ''How can you eat one soup everyday'' Such mindset and idea is devilish. If you see your spouse as your spouse and not a soup, you won't classify them like the food you eat. God's desire for man is one wife and one husband, so if you are never satisfied with the one God has given you, you may never be satisfied with anything in life. No lady in her right senses will ever accept you if you chase anything you see on skirt. The least thing a lady can never tolerate is sharing her man with someone else. Never have I seen a lady who is so happy that her husband is going out with another lady. So, if you are a man who flirts, a lady may reject your proposal and say NO to you.
There are so many things most ladies dislike. If you know of one you currently possess, do away with them. Just like that my friend told me Marriage is a serious business, treat yourself in a nature and pattern desirable of a woman. Every lady is not desperate. When you possess a character or attitude they dislike, prepare to hear a NO for an answer...
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