When a man finds a woman he wants to marry and falls in love with her, he begins to care for her, dresses well,call her often and sms her even if he has nothing to tell her; when they are finally married, it reduces and most men hardly call. Some of them don't mind their look or dress sense any more. They always say ''after-all my wife is not complaining'' 
To them, they see no reason why they should call her since they'll always go back home to meet her. 
The truth about communication is that; the more you communicate with your partner, the more you rekindle the good old days when both of you were so so in love. To sustain love in your relationship, you must treat your man like a king and your woman like your queen. DON'T envy other couple, you too can build the friendship and union you desire.