BEFORE SAYING I DO (PT 1)

Many intending couple spend little or no time together. Because of that, many relationship don't last. It is expected that intending couple spend quality time together. The reason is that communication is an essential part of any relationship. When you lack communication, the possibility of not knowing your spouse even after the wedding is evident. No matter how long you have known your intending spouse, communication is important. When you don't communicate, you give room for secrets which may thereafter lead to misunderstanding and mistrust. 

So many wonderful relationships today is becoming history because of lack of effective communication.
 In other to have the very best,whether married or not, find ways to add value to your relationship which begins with your communication to your partner.

In the bible account of Adam and Eve, when eve took the fruit, she went straight to the husband(Adam) to tell him her encounter with the fruit God commanded them not to eat. Although they disobeyed God by eating the fruit, you would attest that they first communicated to each other. Their actions was generally condemned, but that doesn't still  rule out the fact that they spent time communicating. Spouse or intending couple should communicate.

WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW

Before you say I do especially as a Christian, be sure to agree on which Church to attend after the wedding. I believe most couple may come from one denomination or local Assembly, so it is expected that both of you communicate on that "His Church or Her Church"

The issue of which church to attend should make sense to you both. So many relationships are no more because husband attend XYZ church and wife attends ZYX. Such pattern may ruin your relationship

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