FRAUD IN RELATIONSHIPS

Relationship fraud can happen to anyone and if it does it can have devastating consequences. 

 Over the years, internet dating sites and chat rooms have become a popular and easy way for singles to meet people amidst their busy schedules and inability to physically approach a lady for marriage.

But often, scammers are using online relationships as a way to obtain money from individuals, and break their hearts along the way.  

Dating or romance fraud is when you think you’ve met your perfect partner , but they aren’t who they say they are. Once they’ve gained your trust, they ask for money for a variety of emotive reasons.

In different human relationships, several offences arise in the course of the relationship and interacting with one another.

The offences can sometimes bring emotional or physical injury especially in relationships between the opposite sex(male/female)

As Christians, you should be far from deceit and relationships based on material gain or fraud.

God said if a man deceived a lady by promising to marry her, and as a result had sex with her, he had to marry her, unless her parents refused to give her to him.

In such a case, the man is still required to pay her bride price, even though he may not be given the bride. (see Exodus 22:16-17)

If you are not ready to bound by a written or unwritten agreement, clearly state it to your partner so they know their stand.

Most single ladies meet a man who is interested in making them their wife, the man treats her like a queen, sends her to school and pay her bills, and when she graduates from the university, she changes her mind.

Such fraudulent act or behaviour should be discarded.

If a man starts paying your fees, is giving you excess money and financial assistance,  clearly and boldly ask him his motive.

Don't feel he cares so much and mean no harm.

Many young promising young ladies and men have lost their lives because of such act. As a young man, if a lady starts spending on you and solving most of your needs, finds you a job and gives you money on weekly basis, have a heart 2 heart talk with her and  know what her motive is.

If she says you are always free to marry anyone apart from her, then you are safe, but if her motive is that you would marry her after everything, it is better you talk things with her before it becomes too late.

There are cases where a lady would ask a man to send her abroad to school or work, and in some cases, the man may acquire a property for her in her name hoping that since they would still get married, it doesn't matter. The lady end up dumping the man on arrival abroad and gaining grounds over there.

Another fraudulent act in relationship is when a man who base abroad comes home to marry a woman and after paying her bride price and getting her pregnant, he goes back abroad with a promise of coming back to take her along but never show up. The lady ends up giving birth and suffering alone without assistance from the so called husband.

Because he has paid her bride price and she having his child, he sees no possibility of her getting married again since she knows she is already married. Such act is fraudulent and inhuman.

If a man who base abroad comes for your hand in marriage, he should take you along when going back.

So many people are living a regrettable life because of their actions.

If you are into such fraudulent act, it is expected you stop it.

Relationship is based on trust. Don't destroy  the mindset of another because of your nature of living.

The reason why most couple today lose trust for each other is because of fraud.

Why collect extra money from your spouse when originally the amount needed is not up to the amount collected!

When such spouse finds out about what you've done, they may refuse to ask you but indeed you have lost their trust for life....

The reason why most men refuse to include their wife in a will is because of lack of trust.

As a married man, your wife and your kids should be your next of kin. It is in such cases that most people are tested.

Every act of fraud is a loss on your part. Don't fall into such crime.

Wealth gotten through such means is not genuine.

Love and trust in a relationship is a daily affair.  One act of fraud may end up spoiling your many years of hard work and faithfulness with your partner.

It is my prayer that from today, such record won't be accounted in your name any more.

Fraud Kills

Fraud Leads To Lack Of Trust

Fraud Leads To Divorce and Broken Marriages

Fraud is not of God

Fraud is Not God's Way Of Enriching You(godly wealth comes without an act of sin)

Fraud May Cut Off Your Most Valuable Relationship.

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         FREE YOURSELF FROM FRAUD AND SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP

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