6 THINGS YOU MUST DO BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED

            Getting married is a beauty thing. It is the best period in a persons life.
 Nothing is as sweet as seeing the person you love each day you wake from you sleep.
Though it gets boring, but if you really love your partner, you won't get tired of seeing them every minute.

It is required that both intending couple spend time together which is known as ''Courtship''.

An intending couple should spend at least 6 months together before the marriage proper. Although most people may intend staying longer so as to prepare and plan.

During Courtship, that is not the time to start having sex. It is a dangerous act to begin your union with having sex. Sex is good, but it is intended for people you are legally bonded together.

When you begin sex before marriage, Honey moon for you both becomes soar because you have already done what you would have enjoyed on your wedding night.
I know you've heard much on that topic in your church or group so i won't try to go further.

As a single lady or man especially, there are things you need to do before you finally marry.
Failure to do it may affect your union or your relationship with your spouse.  If you are a shy person, i guess you shouldn't be shy with your wife to be or soon to be husband.

If you are a shy person, you must break free from it because you have no excuse whatsoever especially with your spouse to be.

Though they are much, We'll deal with just six(6) aspect of it and i promise to bring some more soon; but you have to do me a favour of coming here to read them because i won't read them for you since i also read them for myself. So the best way is to subscribe  to our channel so that when anything is posted, you'll be first to get notification and read via your email.
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Six(6) Things You Must Do Before You Get Married

1. Have a weekend to reflect on the person you are:

Before you marry,Write about the person you want to become and learn that saying "I do" doesn't mean the end of life, but the beginning of a journey that you are taking with someone who you love. This takes me to one of my favorite pieces of advice...

2. Before saying "I Do" be comfortable with your own company.

Your future spouse is not responsible for curing boredom or providing you with constant entertainment. Please don't get married because you feel it's time, your biological clock is ticking or everyone else you know has. Settling or rushing to the aisle will not bring you the happily ever after you're wanting.

3. Make sure you love yourself 100%... 

...and know that this person is not coming in your life to complete you, but to complement you. You must already be complete within!

4. Make sure you actually know the person you are about to marry...

  Ask lots of questions beforehand. If he wants children and you don't, guess what? He'll most likely still want kids when you become Mr. and Mrs.

5. Get to know your in-laws.

It makes a big difference. They are now your relatives, the people you'll be sharing holidays, special occasions and family dinners with. They are also your children or future children's grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins. They have the potential to make a huge impact on their futures.

Make sure there's clear understanding on how you'll spend your holidays. I have seen some serious marital issues stem from this seemingly simple request. Knows distant uncles and Aunty. If they are too far, find their pictures, know their name and even call them on phone to say hi...

6. Take a long distance road trip together, just the two of you.

If you can't handle each other in a car for 18 hours, you may want to evaluate spending the rest of your lives together.

When you spend time together, you learn a lot from your partner. Also it is expected that you give yourself opportunity an to miss them.

Your partner's absence reminds you how much of you and your life is impacted by them. More than just another step in a logical progression, marriage becomes a heartfelt, even craved state. I'll let you marinate on that one for a moment.

 Do Enjoy your Marriage!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!