The school called marriage is a school of choice.
You have the right to choose who you want to spend your whole life with, but you must allow God do the choosing for you.
God won't come down to make the selection, but he speaks to your heart with a calm voice and finally gives you great peace.
God won't come down to make the selection, but he speaks to your heart with a calm voice and finally gives you great peace.
If God has asked you to marry from a tribe other than yours, then you should know he means well for you.
It only goes wrong when you pay less attention to his voice and follow the world's pattern of choosing.
As a believer, tribal sentiment should be far from you. If God has called you blessed, it means that he is blessing both you and that other person from another tribe.
It is wrong to say ''if its not igbo i rather remain single for life'' ''if its not yoruba, i don't think i can ever marry another etc....
Your thinking pattern should be far from such.
Your thinking pattern should be far from such.
You only claim a particular culture or tribe because you grew up to find yourself in that region.
You can only claim to come from a particular state because your parents told you; which means that if they told you you come from another state, you would have taken that as true...
You can only claim to come from a particular state because your parents told you; which means that if they told you you come from another state, you would have taken that as true...
Most parents mean well for their children, but when you tell your kids ''Don't ever marry a man from this place'' or Don't ever marry a lady from here, then you have not done well.
The institution called marriage is far beyond tribal sentiment.
Most ladies are still single because they are waiting for a man who comes from their state or local government, i pray you don't wait till Jesus comes.
Most men want until December when they shall travel for christmas to the village so as to find a wife because of the believe system that village girls are the best(i laugh).
it is a nice choice. But you should understand that why some township girls want the best from a man so as not to suffer or drink saliva as breakfast, a village girl also wants the best and since she is coming to town for the first time, she expects you to do more like she has always heard and read on television. So don't think the best is only when you go to your village to find a wife.
No location is too far for God to find you everlasting happiness.
it is a nice choice. But you should understand that why some township girls want the best from a man so as not to suffer or drink saliva as breakfast, a village girl also wants the best and since she is coming to town for the first time, she expects you to do more like she has always heard and read on television. So don't think the best is only when you go to your village to find a wife.
No location is too far for God to find you everlasting happiness.
Marriage is a school and in that school there is no discrimination.
If you must go for the best, then you must be the best and show you worth other people's best... Shalom
If you must go for the best, then you must be the best and show you worth other people's best... Shalom
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