SET A STANDARD FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Unlike a Brand new car where you decide to test run it,

Relationship is not a test driving lesson.
You don't date someone to see if you both are compatible. You don't also date someone to practice how it feels to have a date or  to be in a relationship.

That is why before you go into any relationship, you must state clearly what you want.

 Any relationship that is not leading anywhere is a child's play... And some may ask "must everyone finally be with the one they date"?
The answer is NO.
You must not marry the one you dated especially if you find out that they are not what they claim they were.
but still, you must speak your mind when going into any relationship.

Is he dating you for the benefit he'll finally get?
Is she dating you so you'll become her second father and take her round all shopping mall in Nigeria?
You both must really talk.

Where is the relationship leading? Marriage or two single people cohabiting and making babies?

Now i hear most men say she must first be pregnant before i carryout any marriage right..

Please which religion practice such?
 Because the last time i checked, Christianity was and is still is a decent religion to practice such devilish act.
Quote me any day,
any man that wants you to become pregnant for him before marriage is a devil or even worst.

What makes you think after she becomes pregnant and you finally perform the marriage right she'll deliver a baby?
What makes you think she cant forge to be pregnant so that you'll perform the marriage right before she claim she had a miscarriage?
Beloved, don't rush in and rush out
 it is not a competition of who dated the highest.
The fact that your friend got married this Saturday doesn't mean you must get married next Saturday. You are not in any competition with anyone.
Build your life, know your worth and focus more on more important things.
Good ladies and girls don't go naked just to attract a man, a good man knows the kind of woman that can take care of a home. Marriage is not like 2 minute indomie Noddles. Take your time.