I DON'T BELIEVE IT....

A lady once told me "See Kosi" I can do anything for my boyfriend.
And i didn't argue or say any further because everyone is entitled to his or her own opinion and freedom. So you can lick his feet, drink his saliva or even allow him slap you every morning and no one will hold you ransom for that.

But we have to get it straight.

 Don't enslave yourself all in the name of relationship.
If you are in a relationship, then the person should see you as himself or herself.
Stop begging them or making them feel they are doing you a favor for loving you or caring for you.

Yes it is true you both were made for each other but i assure you that when he leaves, you'll surely find someone who knows your worth and value your words; so also it is for the man when she decides to leave. Now i don't mean married couple because i don't support divorce and it should never cross your mind to ever think about it....

He beats you and after some days or weeks of staying apart you go back to him and say i missed your beating sha... Tell me why he won't beat you again and again since you now love beating like most people can't do without beer.

You can't continue to pretend all is well when indeed you are really in an abusive relationship.

You are afraid you won't find another? That's where the problem is

When you begin to cherish that abusive person to the point that you are scared if you'll find another when you let go, then you give him/her full permission of taking advantage of you because they are so sure you can't do without them.

There are thousands of people ready to love and value you more.

Don't even think it twice!
Anyone who beats you while dating will surely beat you when you both finally settle down(Get married)
No wonder you find broken homes after few years of marriage....Two people who claim were in love finally do not love each other anymore?

  Don't start a relationship with him if you see signs that will make your relationship crash when you finally marry.

The funny thing is that the man can always go ahead to select a girl that was always eyeing him even when you both were still happily married.
God hates divorce; so don't even think of it.

You need people who value you, people who see your pain as there's, people who can always be there for you. Stop playing around with small boys and show girls
You deserve the very best......Be wise.