DONT MAKE A COMMITMENT YOU CANT KEEP

Some guys go as far as promising a girl and even more than one girl marriage knowing fully well he won't marry them. Some end up engaging her and wasting her time and also blocking room for an opportunity with a serious person. Like the case of a female friend who got engaged by a guy in 2008; we all celebrated her and congratulated her little did we know it was heading no where. She advertised her engagement ring,advertised herself and the guy, she even made some of her female friends jealous that they wished they were her... The guy advertised her to his friends and the public telling them to stay clear...about 8 months later and he said he wasn't doing again, and up till this day she is still single without an engagement ring and her new lyrics now is that all guys are the same...
THE MESSAGE:
Don't make a commitment you can't keep. It is true that a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage, and if you won't stay then don't make any promise. This year, choose to be different, stand by your words and every commitment you find yourself, make it work and stop searching for reasons to break people's heart. Value people and relationship, and if you keep searching for a 100% perfect person then you may end up waiting till Nokia starts pinging(that is to say till eternity). Build people, build your relationship. Running here and there won't find you the perfect person. Marriage is a life time commitment, so running up and down won't give you that life time partner. If we must conquer our world, then we should be able to define our identify and what we stand for....