According to them, the man is the head and lord of the home including the women and they have every right over any lady no matter how highly placed.
For sure i don't doubt the fact that God made man the head over the home/wife as he is the head of the Church as recorded in Ephesians chapter 5 verse 23.
There is no crime in being the head and I'll agree with my male folks.
As the head, do you act like one?
Like i learnt during my early secondary school days(social studies)
A leader must show example
A leader must be respectful
A leader must be tolerant etc...
Women need your love and care.
I agree to the fact that almost every woman is emotional in nature, they need your peace and not the high and mighty boss that will always hit them over every slight provocation.
Women go through a lot from men ranging from married to single ladies.
Most men hate women so much that they don't mind what she's passing through.
Most men end up promising marriage to so many ladies and end up using them as a sex toy, then they begin to think she isn't good for them again...(they just realized)
Most of them are treated rudely even when you never paid her bride price all in the name of boo,boyfriend, baby etc....
In the case of loss(death) of the husband, most women are sent packing maybe because she gave birth to just the girl child and no male.
The husband siblings take possession of the whole property not even minding how she suffered, worked,and contributed with her late husband to succeed and make wealth.
If you are reading this, born of a woman and still look down on women,then you need a change of heart.
Women need your care, they need your love, they need you to take things slowly with them.
I agree most of them can be annoying and disrespectful, but still! If we claim to be the head, then we should show it, act it and live it. Women needs our care.
©purposeful living® 2015 international women's day...
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